Wednesday, January 20, 2021

Thank You Dolly!

When I first read the story, I thought it was an internet rumor, but as it turns out, Dolly Parton did give one million dollars to research on the COVID vaccine.  The story has been fact-checked, and it's absolutely true.  Her friend, Dr. Naji Abumrad, was researching a COVID vaccine at Vanderbilt (that later became the Moderna vaccine).  She gave the research team a boost with a donation of $1 million.  Dr. Abumrad said, “Without a doubt in my mind, her funding made the research toward the vaccine go 10 times faster than it would be without it."

"I just felt so proud to have been part of that little seed money that will hopefully grow into something great and help to heal this world."

~Dolly Parton

Dolly grew up in dire poverty, and her musical talent made it possible to escape that world, but she's never forgotten the experience of being in need.  She's donated millions over her career to people in need.  She donated $9 million dollars in 2016 to people that lost their homes during the Gatlinburg, Tennessee fires. She launched her Imagination Library to help boost literacy among children.  Since it launched in 1995, she has provided more than 150 million books to more than 1.7 million children in five countries. 

Dolly has supported many other causes and funded many other initiatives over her decades long career.  She stands as a very good example to all of us, and although few of us are able to give on a scale that Dolly can, we can certainly contribute to those causes that we believe strongly in.  

I just think she's great.  Thank you, Dolly.  You are an inspiration to us all.


Thursday, August 20, 2020

Enough With The Jibber Jabber!

 "Without wood a fire goes out; without a gossip a quarrel dies down."

~Proverbs 26:20

Gossip has been at the heart of every conflict I've know in my life. It's easy to partake in it, and it's easy to fall victim to it. And if you're the victim of it, there's nothing in the world you can do to defend yourself from it. The more vigorously you defend yourself, the more it looks like the gossip about you is true. 

Do you want to have peace in your life?  You want to have a nice work environment?  Enjoy your church family? Have a family that isn't constantly fighting with one another.  You'll never be able to accomplish that in an environment where gossip flourishes. I had a boss that understood that perfectly.  He had little patience for gossip. That was when the world was a little less politically correct--he'd be down in Human Resources in about two seconds today. He'd overheard a group talking about another employee and he'd come roaring out of his office, "Enough with the jibber jabber!" And if you said something about another employee to him, you better be able to back it up with cold hard facts. If you couldn't, you were finished. He tolerated zero gossip in his store. And it was one of the best places and happiest places I've worked. 

There two things you can do about gossip in your life:

Learn To Mind Your Tongue

It is so easy in a moment of frustration to say something bad about somebody else.  It is so easy in a moment of anger to say something about somebody else that is exaggerated due to your emotional state. It is so easy to be offended, especially by somebody we already don't like very much, and make that offense much bigger than it actually is. I think regrettably, we've all done that before.

Work hard at guarding that gate!  Just don't do it. Don't share bad thoughts about somebody. Don't delight with others in the problems or issues of other people. Don't try and belittle somebody because they have less than you do, or because maybe they have more than you do. Don't try to tear somebody down because they're better at something than you are, or worse.

We should be building each other up. We should pointing out the talents of others to each other not the faults. We should be appreciating the things they do. We should encourage them in areas where they're falling short.  We should be teaching our children about gossip, and just how destructive it can be. And we should be correcting our children when they say harsh things about other people.

Ignore Gossip 

I just really have no patience for drama. I'm somebody that loves a good joke. I enjoy being around people.  I enjoy great conversation. And I love to laugh. But I couldn't tell you how many times I've fallen victim to gossips. I've been driven to be successful at everything I do, and I'm willing to work harder to accomplish those goals than anybody else. But in every endeavor that I have ever tried to excel in, there's been those that have tried to tear me down. In my first management job, I was nearly fired over accusations that were later proven untrue.  I've dealt with it in church groups, at work, in my family, and in fraternal groups I belong to.  And it used to make me mad.  When I was younger, if you pushed my buttons I'd put on a really good show for you--and of course give the gossips more to gossip about in the process. I was actually doing them a favor by adding fuel to the fire.

Sometimes in a moment of weakness, I still slip up and react. But not as often as I used to.  I've learned. Just don't engage. You can't win. Like Mark Twain said, "Never argue with a fool. Onlookers may not be able to tell the difference." Do what you know is right, and ignore the naysayers. They're not on your side now, there's nothing you'll be able to do to change that. You can't let other people determine how you're going to behave. You can't let other people get in your head and make you doubt yourself.  You can't let other people push your buttons and run your life by remote control. You have to shut them out. Life your life, do the things you know are right, and pray for them. Honestly pray for them.

But don't let gossips and naysayers drag you off your path!

Our society today is a mess. It's always been a mess, but these days, so much of our entertainment is so negative. You watch Dr. Phil, and delight in the problems of other people--we sit back and laugh at the dumb things they say, or the silly ways they react when he tells them how it is.  We watch "Big Brother" and watch a group of young people in a house destroy each other through gossip and alliances--think about that for a minute.  And our kids are watching a constant stream of funny videos of people doing dumb things, and then they make comments like "what an idiot" and "obviously not a college graduate."  And our media is constantly teaching us how to judge people that have different beliefs, and how to tear people down that think differently, and how to humiliate and "cancel" people we don't like.  And we're consuming all that.  

Are those your values?

It's no wonder we treat each other the way we do.  It's no wonder we don't feel empathy for the people we're destroying with our words. It's no wonder we fight rather than communicate. We have to do better. We have to teach our children better.  We have to teach them how to be human beings. We have to teach them to follow the example Christ gave us. We have to teach them to feel love for our neighbors . . .AND OUR ENEMIES. 


Monday, August 17, 2020

Learning How To Protect Yourself

I never go to a concert with out some of these in my pockets.
"Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes."

 Ephesians 6:11

When I was in high school, I went to my first rock concert.  It was an 80s hair band called Ratt, and they had a big song at the time "Round and Round."  It's funny, but they're featured on a Geico commercial right now you've probably seen--the couple in the ad loves their new home, but they have a "Ratt problem."  Then it flashes to a scene showing the band Ratt playing "Round and Round" in their kitchen.

That's the first band I ever saw in concert.  I didn't know what to expect.  I went with a couple friends--Chip was the only one old enough to drive, and of course Jim, too.  Anyway, when that opening act came out and started to play, I was overwhelmed.  It was so loud!  I grew up around farm equipment.  I grew up around guns.  I grew up blowing up things with fireworks.  But never in my life had I ever been exposed to anything that loud.  And when the opening act stopped playing, and Ratt came out it was even louder yet!  So loud I could feel the floor vibrating under my feet, and the drum beats felt like they were hitting me.  It was painful.  Too loud to even hear the music.  

But I finally got used to it.  And we had a great time.  It wasn't until we walked outside that I realized how loud it actually was.  I couldn't hear my friends talking.  I couldn't hear the motors of the cars driving by on the street.  My ears were ringing--that lasted a couple days.  That wasn't the last concert I went to, but it was the last concert I went to without ear plugs.  My friends made fun of me, but I didn't really care.  I love music.  It is such an important part of my life both then and now, even when I was young and dumb I was smart enough to realize I'd need my hearing well beyond my teenage years so I went to efforts to make sure I protected myself.

Sin is that same way.  You are really aware of sin when you're first exposed to it in the beginning. You know it's wrong.  You know it is bad for you.  You know you should get away from it.  You know there is no good that will come from it.  But if you don't pay attention to that sin, over time, you get used to it. And once you become acclimated to sin, it doesn't seem nearly as bad as it did in the beginning.  You can even begin to accept it.  You can get comfortable with it, even enjoy it. You can look around and see other people doing the exact same thing and think to yourself, well, if they aren't worried about it, why should I be?  Because you're forgetting the price you'll pay in the long term. When that bill comes due you'll feel nothing but regret. 

You've got to protect yourself from it or it will damage you forever--even beyond our mortal lifetimes. You're going to be exposed to it without doubt, but there are ways to protect yourself. 

You prepare yourself by putting on your armor. 


I apologize to my regular readers for getting this up late--we've been working on a few home improvement projects, and my house has been all torn up this week.  It's been chaos around here!  But I hope you'll enjoy this week's piece even though it's late . . . 

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Wednesday, August 12, 2020

Shake Things Up Once In Awhile!

It's easy to fall into a rut.  Working from home, it's even easier to fall into a rut--sometimes I'm not even sure what day it is.  Last week when I thought it was Wednesday and it was actually Thursday!  That was kind of nice, because I was a little further through the work week than I thought I was.  

My wife said instead of just going right into my office and starting in the morning (sometimes two hours or more early) I should try shaking things up a little bit--maybe go out for coffee. What great advice! I've been having a blast! My mask in hand, I've been hitting a different coffee spot every morning!

And I've had some really exceptional coffee this week.  I've even tried some different varieties (which isn't really like me at all)!  On Monday, I started taking a picture of my daily selection and posting it on social media and I've been getting all kinds of great suggestions from my friends of where I should go next!  I may hit a spot tomorrow that was recommended that I've never been to before--looks like the same thing on Thursday and Friday.  I had no idea there were so many great places to get coffee within 15 or 20 minutes of my house.  

It doesn't take very much to get yourself out of a rut. Something as insignificant as going out for coffee can change your whole day.  This has been a pretty good week for me!  By the time I sit down at my desk in the morning to get to work, I've already had an adventure, met some new people, and enjoyed a new experience!  And I've even learned that even though I'm a dark roast kind of coffee drinker, there's a couple light roasts I've tried this week that I'll be drinking again!

So get out of your rut!  Explore a local park!  Try a different restaurant!  Read a book that doesn't fall into your usual pattern!  Listen to a different radio station!   Bring your neighbor a donut!  Maybe leave a comment on a blog you've been enjoying?  There's all kind of little things you can do to make your day more memorable, and maybe expand your world a little bit. 


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