Just One More Thing: Whose Approval Are You Chasing?
Yesterday in my sermon, I touched on the idea of how foolish it is to go through life trying to please people yesterday. I didn't get to everything I wanted to say, so just like Columbo, I'm going to go back to it for "just one more thing." I have spent way too many hours of my life worrying about what other people think. I've spent hours rewriting text messages so they'd sound "just right." I've laughed at jokes that weren't funny. There have been many times in my life when I’ve remained silent because I didn’t want to be the fly in the ointment. Trying to please people feels harmless. It feels polite, even. We want to get along, and sometimes that means we go along. But trying to please people can be sneaky, because for the sake of peace, we sometimes let things go we shouldn’t. We don’t tell somebody the truth when we’re asked because we don’t want to hurt their feelings. We don’t address a concern that needs to be addressed...